I think at 30 it becomes important for me to be with a man that has time to protect and prioritize his romantic relationship. Like I know it’s possible for a person to build in other areas of life and have a healthy relationship … or is it? Either way, I want to be with a man that is in a life space where he can afford a relationship. Not so much financially, but that’s not out of the question. But I want him to have a lot of great things going and not so close to the bottom of his building process that he has found some relief and can now also prioritize love.
Looking back on it at thirty one, love was always on the back burner because this man was trying to cook two different sides while preparing the main course. It definitely wasn’t giving michelin star… more like chef nigga please.